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Scorpio Man Love, Lust, and ObsessionScorpio Man Love, Lust, and Obsession by Nikita Gharat
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I think she has described, the Scorpio man point blank. What I liked is the fact that she has elaborated the Scorpio stare.

She let's the girl in love with a Scorpio man distinguish between love and lust. It is true that Scorpio men are known for the loyalty but they can also be brutal heartbreakers. This book helps in finding out whether you are with a keeper or breaker. Also, there are additional chapters such as Scorpio man and eros signs, which help in knowing "what triggers the particular scorpio man".

The book has detailed insight, I loved reading it. Recommended for those in love with a Scorpio man and also for those who are Scorpio themselves.

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8th House Synastry: When You Feel It Deeply and Madly!

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When the 8th house is affected in synastry, you will feel the hit truly, madly  and deeply. However, the planet person may not know at all. Most of the times people don't understand that in synastry house overlays, the planet person is not affected. It is the house person who feels the energy of the planet. The same is applicable for the asteroids and points. 

The house person is the host while the planet person is the guest. Until unless it has any friend or enemy belonging to the planet person, there is no way the planet person will feel anything. That is why, unrequited love takes place. There are four sensitive points where planets in synastry can affect us deeply such as the ascendant (mind, personality), IC (soul and past lives), descendant (partnerships and open enemies) and MC (family name, public image and professional status).

Nevertheless, there are other points that can be extremely personal such as 2nd house cusp (security needs), 5th house cusp (romance and procreation) and 8th house (deepest needs, deepest passion, kundalini energy and insecurities).

Even the detached 11th house cusp is about friendship needs. If planets from partner's chart hit these points then you will feel the energy highly. However, even when the planets are placed inside the house it also felt truly. 

Among all the 8th house is the house of deepest passion, security needs, sex, rebirth and death as well as kundalini energy. If the hits to the 2nd house are felt at the heart, then hits at 8th house are felt below, way below the heart inside the hidden corridors. That is why it is called the hidden house, the house of death and rebirth. Sex can be experienced with the 2nd house hits but with 8th house you experience the Kundalini rising that kills you and recreates you. 

The hits to the 8th house can threaten to wake-up our sleeping demons. They can turn us into an obsessive, possessive and crazy dracula in love who wants to drink blood of anyone who threatens the passion fulfilment. This is usually true if there are hits by uranus to the IC or AC or DC, even 5th house. Pluto, Mars and Uranus can be the biggest miscreants while Venus and Moon for men can push them off the edge. In case of women, they can attack men who place the feminine planets in their 8th house.

If Eros, Psyche, Valentine, Amor, Ceres, Juno or Chiron hit the 8th house then too, we can feel the urgency to reach the fulfilment. It's the call to rise our kundalini energy and release emotional tension. It is the long-awaited relief. Your karma wants to clear you and make you a new person. 

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You may have been in love before, it may have felt like true love. But this one feels real because it hits all the cords that you had forgotten existed in your ID. Though, the explanation Freud gives about the ID is those which are untamed desires with no control (characterized by Nessus in astrology), the truth is that ID is also raw passion and deep needs. It is also deep seated insecurity, fear and unfulfilled expectations that cries a storm to reach desired end. ID is also Kaali energy which can also be balanced by Shiva (the conscious or ego). 

Therefore, when someone enters our most secret place whose keys we have forgotten then our ID wakes up. That is why, we feel deeply and madly about this person who can get us what we need and not want the most. 

The clash starts when the person is not aware or interested or both in helping you to rise your kundalini energy. That person is least bothered to see if you are finally able to make out the difference between the one you thought was your true love and the one who actually is your real love.  8th house hits take you back to the roots of all the roots. When your kundalini is rising you feel the hit at the base root, the root of your oldest past life the one that made the real you. Therefore, when you see the planet person, you see yourself in him or her. A part that was either lost or long forgotten about. It initiates catharsis. When someone puts a stellium of personal planets then you feel that you are peeping into that deep well of souls. You see yourself at the bottom and want to jump right in to meet yourself.  

Even if the two personal planets/ ruler of ac,ic,5th,dc,8th or mc hit your ac/ic/5th/dc/8th/mc you will feel the same. Sometimes hits to 2nd and 12th also contribute in giving an urgent feeling. For example, if two planets such as moon and uranus hit the 8th while mars venus hit the IC then too you will experience a deep urge to merge with the planet person. 

Let's take a look at how planet and asteroid overlays to 8th house can make you feel as the house person. 

Sun in your 8th house: The light comes to the dark den of Pluto and suddenly it's illuminated. You see your hidden personality in the light. Your pride and goals are reflected back to you. This person is extremely handsome and magnetic. You see your royal side in him or her and pulled towards him/her. You admire this person and want to merge with his/her brightly shining soul and body.

Moon in your 8th house: A soul of light comes to the dark world. It has the power of controlling the tides and thus, pulls in your deepest emotions. There is a deep volcanic storm in your heart especially if that persons other personal planets/ ruler of ac,ic,5th,dc,8th or mc hit your ac/ic/5th/dc/mc or 12th house. 

Venus in your 8th house: The voluptuous goddess of love or handsome adonis knocks at your hidden corner of passion and transformation. You are attracted to her/him with your deepest desire and passion wanting to merge with her/him for transformation. You see your real love and love needs in this person. It is someone that can give you a soulful connection that feels more than just right. It connects to your deepest root and releases your tension. 

Mars in your 8th house: The sexual drive planet storms inside your secret hidden chamber and finds you exposed. Mars hits your most carnal desires with his fiery attempts to rock your underworld. He may be a cop who wants aggressively uncover your secrets but you don't get worked up by him. Instead, he arouses you to fire your kundalini fire and let a battle for love take place. The win is the merger of your innermost fire with blazing drive of love, so be it. Still, for a man with the 8th house energy and woman with the mars, it  can become a frustrating tussel where the man will burn but the woman won't cower down.

Mercury in your 8th house: The messenger gets in your house of shadow. The person who puts his/her mercury in your 8th house can take out secret information from you quite easily. You speak to him/her about all topics that can be taboo or much revealing about your innermost core. You feel extreme urge to reveal all that is on your mind to this person. It is highly risky, but 8th house is about losing control.

Jupiter in your 8th house: This person increases your appetite for deep love. You want to expand in all directions and gain knowledge about touching the base of the root of the roots. You will not want to hesitate in knowing everything and the hunger is ever increasing. If this person responses well to you then this can be great love. However, if not then it can be an extremely disturbing experience.

Saturn in your 8th house:  You don't want this karmic teacher here. The first reaction is that this person dries you up sexually and totally. Simply, you cannot experience love with this person. It is karma. The old master may bore you totally. You just want to get this person out of the secret hideout.

Uranus in your 8th house: A lightning strikes out one day, one night or one moment out of the blue. Your hidden place is blown up. Your secrets are out. They are tumbling uncontrollably and you can only helplessly watch. However, instead of getting angry, this UFO excites you and you want to merge unconditionally. You will never be the same person again. Being a generational planet this can be a risky planet. Still, if this person receives energy from you too then, it can be exciting unusual love.

Neptune in your 8th house:  A romance from the neverland opens the core of your cores. This person is the ideal soulmate from the past life that awakens hidden feelings . You meet this person and feel a psychic connection. You know them from some lifetime. Again, it is essential that this person feels the energy from you as well.

Pluto in your 8th house: There is nothing more transformative than this one. Your heart is wrenched out. You experience metamorphosis. This person will change you and make you erupt your deepest fears, insecurities, passions and intimate needs on the surface. This person comes with an opportunity either to you help you rise your kundalini energy like a Yogi or become a venomous deadly serpent. 


Unknown said…
I am so confused because I have Pluto in the 8th and everybody my age has their Pluto in my 8th house. What does it mean?
If you have Pluto in your 8th house and everyone in your generation is putting their Pluto in your 8th then you will feel the one with the tightest orb. Secondly, you can handle the energy as it's generational.

You are highly powerful yourself with the Pluto sitting in his own house. You can attract a lot of wealth and wealthy partners that satisfy you deeply. Just don't let your drive explode and meditate frequently. Surround yourself with white things because you've Plutonic energy.

For most people, you will be the one to experience Past life dreams and regressions. Lot of karmic energy to handle, just keep calm.
Justin W said…
I've read several Synastry books, and most agree that it's often the Planet person who feels more the pull and attraction when their Planet falls in another person's 1st, 5th, 7th, and 8th Houses. One example is E.W. Neville's "Planets In Synastry" (which is one of the "classics").

It can be somewhat mutual too, and a lot depends on the attunement of the individuals involved, and other inter-aspects and other House placements in the mutual sense. Then of course, it also depends on the Planets and houses involved.

I happen to think that 7th House placements tend to be the most mutual, because you're often pairing one person's Ascendant sign, with the other person's planetary placements in opposite Signs. There is an intense attraction between opposite Signs between charts of two people in general, as opposite Signs are like the north and south poles of a magnet. The points don't even have to be in actual direct aspect, but it will be stronger and more immediate if they are.

5th House tends to be somewhat mutual, especially when the Ascendant and the other person's Planet(s) are in an actual trine relationship. But the person's whose planets are "captured" in the 5th House, will tend to feel the more romantic, beauty idealization, and/or sexual aspect of it.

I'll give an example of the above in actual real practice. My brother had a friend who was absolutely obsessed with him sexually and romantically. She is Aries Sun, Rising, and Mars. He is Virgo Rising, Venus, and Mars, with Libra Sun.

His chart captured her Sun, Rising, and Mars in his 8th, and her strong Aries is in a general, inconjunct, 8th House connection to his strong Virgo (i.e. not just his Ascendant, but also his Virgo Venus and Mars conjunction).

He had a bit of an attraction to her, but it wasn't nearly as strong as her attraction to him, which was deeply obsessive and compulsive in nature. She did capture his Scorpio Moon in her 8th, I believe, but again, it wasn't nearly as strong.

It probably didn't help that he is unusually good looking, charming, and magnetic in general, and she isn't particularly attractive nor strongly feminine in looks. There might have been more mutual attraction if she was much more physically attractive.

Thank you for your comment and sharing of the experience. Now, to what you've mentioned. Let me tell you that the natal houses represent your psychological and physiological areas. So, 8th house is your reproductive system, kundalini area and deepest psyche or your ID. When planets are put there they stir the most hidden desires and waters of your psyche.

If someone puts Sun, then there is unsettling feeling there which we may or may not want to acknowledge. It can be scary. The Sun person wanders into the dark corners which he or she also may or may not want to see. However, if someone puts the ascendant, then it's his personal point, mind, identity into the 8th house of the another. That can create a fascinating attraction towards the 8th house person.

When someone puts the Mars then for the 8th house person, it's not a welcome intrusion. Mars is heat and 8th house is water, it can burn out his or her deepest waters or psyche. Nevertheless, there will be an impact that one may loathe yet desire. The reason why you feel she felt it more is because she was fire sign while he was earth.

Fire burns and explodes while earth stays grounded and reacts thoughtfully. Another thing is that his feminine planet, moon landed in her 8th house. That must have unsettled her. Moon is the soul. When man's moon is in a female's 8th house, she looks aggressive because it's pluto's house. Therefore, the man may want to end it than continue it. That must have driven her crazy.
Anonymous said…
This article is so accurately true! My ex's Mars was in my 4th house I always cried for him, I wanted a home with him we had a beautiful baby girl together...I loved him so much with over whelmed feelings he was like my baby...he hurt my feelings alot until I went cold on him and we broke second ex Mars was in my 5th house, I felt so confident with her..we had so much fun..she would always ask why you don't get jealous over me, because I was so confident in our relationship with her..the sex was amazing, so fun...a fling, one night stand had his Venus in my 8th I became obsessed with him...I wanted to merge with him...he was so beautiful and sexy to me..but became very uninterested because I felt like he wasn't giving like I was giving to him when it came to sex and money...he was broke most of the times and sex was boring with him..big BIG turn off...and I felt I was uncovering secrets about him..I got away from him FAST..BIG TURN OFF...I feel like the house person brings the energy and the planet person reacts to that energy..sun, confident wise, moon feelings wise, Venus love wise etc..the planet person FEEDS it that energy..
Anonymous said…
I'm sorry..I meant the HOUSE PERSON feeds the planet person that person..
Anonymous said…
I'm sorry..I meant the HOUSE PERSON feeds the planet person that energy...doing ten things at one time here guys... LOL
Kitty said…
I have my 8th house Sun and Juno (and Mercury) in this man's 8th house, and I feel so drawn to him and cannot get him out of my head. But I'm still not sure how he feels about me. He doesn't seem to be interested in me as much as I to him.
Anonymous said…
His Sun, Moon, and Mercury are in my 8th house and my Venus, Mars, Saturn, and Neptune are in his 8th house. We just started dating, but he is still living with an ex partner and there are a lot of issues to work through. Is it worth it?
I would like to see both whole charts to know if it's worth it. You need to have IC and MC overlays for it to work. But if your Saturn in his 8th can be a bit troublesome. Saturn is a dry planet and 8th house is about passion.
Anonymous said…
This topic always leaves me perplexed. Who feels what? I always hear it is the planet person and to be honest sometimes I do feel a bit lunatic with this. I guess one way or another both ppl are feeling some type of energy, whether it be attraction or repulsion. I was magnetically drawn to my bf. My moon and mars fall in his 8th house, a few degrees before his 9th. His venus on the other side in his 9th conjuncts my moon. My mars exactly trines his pluto. What do you think about that? His moon mars conjunction fall in my 3rd.
Aishwarya said…
Dear the planet person goes in the 8th house almost unknowingly. He or She doesn't do it on purpose. There's a pull but not attraction unless there's a personal planet or ac/ic/dc/mc or 5th/8th conjunction.

The house person feels the energy of the planet and the planet may find him/her creepy at times.
Anonymous said…
“for a man with the 8th house energy and woman with the mars, it  can become a frustrating tussel where the man will burn but the woman won't cower down.”

ummm can you pls explain that more?
I didn’t get that part ,my mars in Cancer is in his 8th ,and his lilith is there in the 8th
Lilith conjunct Mars is obsessive love. You have your Mars in his 8th where his Lilith is then it's double the taboo and obsession. Now, coming to the part that I've written, it means that if you decide to say no to him, the anger will result into a battle. The eight house person burns for the mars but, if the mars decides no then it will go on forever.
Anonymous said…
“The eight house person burns for the mars”

Sorry English is not my first language,
When you say (burns for the mars)you mean his desire right? He the 8th house person feel a desire for the mars and will not take no as an answer for his desire ,and in the case of a relationship the argument between them will be hard and turns into battle due to the mars in the 8th right?

In our case Who feel obsessed more? Me or him ? or both of us for each other?
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Mars in 8th house anonymous yes. His Lilith contacts you so you must be obsessed as well. But he's the 8th house, so it must be a wild energy for him.
Anonymous said…

What do you mean by wild energy for him?

What I understand is thats i am the one feeling more obsessed due to his lilith contact to my mars in his 8th? But Its not a conjunction cuz my mars is 21 degree and his lilith 5 degree

Dear, why don't you buy the 8 the house synastry report from the website? I will give you a personalized report with detailed analysis. You can ask me questions after that. I will be available to answer all.
Anonymous said…
Is it okay if i don’t have our time of birth for the report ? I guessed ours by our demeanour
Sure, it won't be 100% accurate. But if you know the birth dates, we'll make it up to 80%.

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